Second marriage in Nepal carries its own particular weight. Most legacy matrimonial sites either pretend divorced profiles do not exist or surface them as an afterthought; we wanted to do better. Lami treats divorcee matrimony as a first-class search with its own filter and the same verification, Kundli, and privacy gates that apply to any other profile on the platform.
How the marital-status filter works
Every Lami profile lists a marital-status field — Single, Divorced, Widowed, Separated, or unspecified — and the discover filter and the search filter both let you narrow by any of these. A divorced user searching specifically for other divorced or widowed users can do so without scrolling through unrelated profiles; a never-married user searching for partners open to divorcees can include those profiles in the same way.
Verification, Kundli, and privacy — all the same
Every divorcee profile on Lami is hand-verified against a Government ID and a clear photo, with the marital-status field declared up front. The in-app Ashtakoot Guna Milan is available for any pair who want to use it, never gated to first marriages. The surname-masked-until-match privacy gate, request-and-accept chat, and no-public-profile-page policy apply uniformly — discretion matters especially in the early stages of a second-marriage search.
Who uses Lami for divorcee matrimony
Lami's divorcee user base includes professionals across Nepal and the diaspora who are looking for a second serious relationship after a first marriage ended. Many users have children from a previous marriage; the "has children" field is a separate filter so a search can prioritise matches who are open to a partner with children. Religion, caste, community, and Kundli filters work the same way they do for any other Lami search.
Get started
Register free, complete the verification process, and filter the discover deck by marital status to surface profiles open to second marriage. Premium plans unlock chat, Kundali, and games for Rs 799 / month (Silver), Rs 2,999 / 3 months (Gold), or Rs 5,499 / 6 months (Platinum). Verified women receive their first 30-day Silver plan free.