Lami is built for serious bihey, which means every profile on the site — including every Nepali bride's profile — has been verified by a real person against a Government ID and a clear photo before it appears in anyone else's discover deck. There is no self-verify checkbox, no badge for pay, and no recycled social-media photos. This is what a trusted matrimonial site actually looks like.
Who you'll find
Lami's bride profiles span professional and family backgrounds across Nepal and the diaspora — doctors, engineers, teachers, accountants, civil servants, designers, students, family-side homemakers, NRN professionals working in Australia, the US, the UK, the Gulf, and India. Every verified woman receives her first 30-day Silver plan free as part of Lami's launch promotion, so the women's user base is actively building out across every region.
Filters that match what families actually want
Filter by religion, caste or ethnicity, mother tongue, education, height, marital status, native district, and current address — independent fields so a search can be as specific as a family needs it to be. The full list of caste and ethnicity options includes Brahmin (Bahun), Chhetri, Newar, Thakuri, Janajati, Madhesi, Muslim, Rai, Limbu, Gurung, Magar, Tamang, Sherpa, Tharu, Yadav, Kami, Damai, Sarki, and Other, with Gotra as a separate searchable field for families who centre that check.
Kundli matching, run in the app
Once you find a bride profile that fits your search, run an instant Ashtakoot Guna Milan from the matched profile — Lami's in-app calculator delivers the full 36-point score with the eight-koot breakdown (Varna, Vashya, Tara, Yoni, Graha Maitri, Gana, Bhakoot, Nadi) so a family pundit can review it for the second opinion if they want one.
Privacy by default
Every bride's full surname stays masked from anyone she has not matched with. Her photos and personal details are hidden behind request-and-accept rather than behind a paywall, and no profile page is indexed by Google. Once both parties accept the request, private chat opens up — Lami's verified women have full control over who they speak with.
Get started
Register free as a verified groom, complete the verification process, and start sending requests to bride profiles that fit your search. See plans on the Premium page, or browse grooms, cities, and communities instead.